Oh by the way, if you search for a reason to run an own homeserver, please be aware of the fact that matrix.org is proxied through Cloudflare.
So maybe try to avoid to send private messages without using Riot's #E2EE. It's not just the vector.im company that is able to read your messages but also Cloudflare.
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